Making new friends wherever I go. That is something that comes naturally to me. However, after my life changed two years ago, I have analysed more intuitively people’s behaviours, and attitudes.
I have come to understand that all of us, no matter in which part of the world we come from, have a responsibility attached to us since birth.
It can be a religion to follow, what type of person to love, what is appropriate to wear, or who we are supposed to judge. Most of us suppress our feelings if it does not fit with “what our friends and family expect from us”.
“I think one of the main problems of our society is that most of us see love as a social construct.”
We are wrongly meant to find somebody that is the gender, colour, size, shape, background, and personality that the people in our environment want it to be.
As obvious as it can be, our environment comprehends our family, government, friends, and everyone we have known in our lifetime.
However, what is happening right now?
We have reached a point in our history where we see on our phones and computers (every day), that we have the possibility of loving, dressing, and being who we truly are.
Most of us carry the weight of the suppressed emotions of our ancestors. Living with this responsibility is one of the biggest problems in our society.
Even if it seems difficult to abandon the responsibilities that are attached to us since birth to our families, friends, and the people around us, believe me, they have no clue why they are even carrying them themselves.
Adversity will always exist in our life. Do you think is better to face it by being true to who you are or by being the person you are pretending to be?
Love whomever you want and do not be afraid to show it. It would make you feel and look like a superhero at this time. Trust me.
“What is good for you, always, is to do what it feels naturally and true to yourself.”
